When trying to meet someone, it is easy to fall into a vicious circle. You’re attracted to a certain type and therefore, you’re trying to get in touch with them. You’ll meet a few times, only to soon discover that there is nothing to it. So you force yourself into the hunting game once more, only to soon discover that it’s the same old story that runs in the replay.
Eventually you begin to doubt that ever be able to meet someone; you think they are all are the same, you do not fit, you are doomed to forever be consigned to the sole’s fibrous marshes. Self-esteem drops to the bottom and you finally give up and persuade yourself that love is not for everyone.
But love is for all who receive it. The problem is that you let the search be at the heart instead of love. Since ages ago you’ve matched every potential partner against a long list of requirements to the future ideal picture. But because it is very unlikely that you will ever meet someone that exactly matches this list, you’re likely bound to the habit of not letting anyone at all close enough to let deeper feelings begin to grow.
Instead, you have to figure out what you’re really seeking; is it a temporary fling for physical attraction, or a companion for life? If the answer is a stable relationship in the long run, you should simply take a step back and reflect on the properties that best benefit such a relationship. You will then soon discover that there are other things that are more important to achive the real goal and this insight means that you get much better conditions for finding someone you feel comfortable with in a partnership that actually works.